Friendship is one of the greatest things people can have in life. Friends help each other through the bad times and are their to celebrate the good times. You find out who your real friends are when times get rough and who is their for you. Friends are the family you get to choose, and if you choose them right they can be the one thing you can always count on. I have the best friends and they have been real and been there for me since the beginning. In The Things They Carried in the very first chapter when one of their friends died it showed friendship when they were all stunned by the sight of his dead body.
Relationships are a big part of life, and the way you interact with others. You relationship with everyone: parents, friends, peers, teachers, bosses, teammates all affect you. You want good relationships with, in my opinion, the people that matter. If someone isn’t kind to you, if its not important to you, you don’t have to be kind back, but that may kick you in the butt later. You should respect everyone. Especially people with higher authority then you. You have to show respect to your teachers, parents, elders, bosses, coaches, whomever it may be. The same goes in the war as shown in The Things They Carried, if you have good relationships with the people in higher class you may get moved up. But the good relationships that the soliders have with each other show when they have each other’s backs.